DIY Weddings
DIY Weddings: Capturing the Heart and Soul of Your Big Day
There’s something magical about a DIY wedding. Maybe it's the personal touches, the heartfelt effort, or the unique flair that only a couple can bring to their celebration. As a wedding photographer, I absolutely love documenting DIY weddings. Not only do these weddings showcase creativity, but they often come with an emotional depth that makes every shot feel even more special.
If you’re planning your own DIY wedding or thinking about incorporating personal touches into your day, here are a few things I’ve learned over the years about capturing the essence of DIY celebrations.
1. The Personal Touches: Your Story in Every Detail
A DIY wedding is full of personalized elements that reflect your relationship. Whether it's handcrafted wedding favors, a custom ceremony backdrop, or a beautifully decorated reception space, these details are the heart and soul of your celebration. As a photographer, I love taking time to capture these unique touches, because they tell a story only you can share.
From handwritten vows to a guestbook made from Polaroids, the creative aspects of a DIY wedding bring out the couple’s personality in ways that a traditional wedding might not. I always make sure to get up-close shots of these elements, making sure each one is captured in the best light.
2. The Homemade Decor: A Labor of Love
A lot of couples who plan DIY weddings take on the task of creating their own décor. Whether it’s flower arrangements, table settings, or signs guiding guests to the reception, each decoration often holds sentimental value. I find it so special to photograph these items, especially when the couple has poured hours of work and love into them.
The lighting is everything for these photos. Capturing the intimate glow of handmade candles or the soft colors of a floral arch takes time and consideration. As a photographer, I make sure to pay attention to how each piece is lit, giving each detail the attention it deserves.
3. The Intimate Moments: Real Emotions and Raw Beauty
One of the greatest things about a DIY wedding is the relaxed atmosphere. Since you’re crafting a day that is true to your style, the vibe is often more laid-back, allowing for natural, unscripted moments to shine. Couples are able to share more personal vows, families are often more involved in the ceremony, and everyone feels like they’re part of something special.
As a wedding photographer, capturing these moments without forcing them is key. There’s nothing more beautiful than capturing the tears in a father’s eyes as he walks his daughter down the aisle or the smile between a couple when they read their vows. DIY weddings tend to have a higher number of these intimate, raw moments, and it’s always a privilege to document them.
4. The Collaborative Atmosphere: Friends and Family at the Forefront
When you’re planning a DIY wedding, you’re often relying on your loved ones to help bring the vision to life. Whether they’re acting as officiants, making your wedding cake, or helping to set up the venue, these people are integral to making your big day happen. I love capturing the behind-the-scenes moments where family and friends are working together to create something beautiful.
These candid photos of friends and family preparing or sharing a laugh during setup add layers of emotion to the wedding album. It’s a reminder of the community and support that surrounds you on your big day.
5. The Big Picture: A Truly Unique Celebration
At the end of the day, a DIY wedding is as unique as the couple themselves. The joy and love shared throughout the celebration are often felt on a deeper level because so much of the wedding is tied to personal effort, memories, and dreams. As a photographer, I aim to capture the overall feel of the day: the joy, the celebration, and the unforgettable moments that will last a lifetime.
Every DIY wedding has its own story, and my goal as your wedding photographer is to tell that story in the most beautiful way possible—through moments, details, and emotions that are uniquely yours.
DIY Wedding Photography Tips for Couples
For couples planning their own DIY wedding, here are a few tips to get the most out of your wedding photos:
Choose a photographer who understands your vision: You want someone who can capture the personal touches and intimate moments that matter most to you. Share your ideas with them ahead of time, so they’re prepared to capture the heart of your wedding.
Plan the details: While DIY weddings are all about personal flair, it’s helpful to have a detailed plan for how everything will come together. This makes it easier for your photographer to know where to be and what to focus on.
Embrace candid moments: DIY weddings tend to be full of unscripted moments. Embrace these candid shots! They’ll be the most memorable moments from your day.
Lighting is key: If you’re working with limited lighting—like at an evening reception—be sure to consider how your photographer will be able to light your venue. Good lighting ensures your beautiful DIY details and moments shine through.
Have fun: Your wedding day is a celebration of your love. Don’t be afraid to let go of perfection and enjoy the process. The most authentic and beautiful moments will come from the joy of being fully in the moment.